The Farm

Fairlight Farm – A Haven for Reflection and Dialogue

A historic property nestled in Maryland’s Pleasant Valley, Fairlight Farm is more than a physical place—it’s a space where dialogue, reflection, and restoration come together.

About Fairlight Farm

Purchased in 2018, Fairlight Farm sits on 62 acres of scenic land in Maryland’s Pleasant Valley. The farm, with its rich history and serene environment, provides the perfect setting for meaningful conversations and restorative gatherings. Surrounded by South Mountain and Elk Ridge, the farm features wooded areas, seasonal wetlands, and open fields that offer a peaceful retreat from the chaos of everyday life.

At Fairlight, time slows down. Whether walking along the creek or watching the sunrise over the fields, the natural beauty invites contemplation and fosters a deeper connection with the land, with others, and with oneself. It’s a place where the past and present meet, offering not only quiet reflection but also a sanctuary for dialogue and healing.

History of the Farm

Originally established in 1820 by Hezekiah Boteler, the farm was once known as Friendly Hall. Throughout the Civil War, the property served as both a field hospital and prison for Confederate and Union forces. Despite its complex history, Friendly Hall became a symbol of reconciliation when Josephine Boteler, a Confederate sympathizer, married Union officer Captain Daniel Wade Lapham in 1867.

Today, we carry forward that spirit of reconciliation through Fairlight Forum, creating a space where deep conversations about division and unity can thrive.

Stewardship of the Land

Since acquiring Fairlight Farm, John and Kimberly Hart have embraced the responsibility of stewarding the land with great care and dedication. Together, they have embarked on several rehabilitation projects, including restoring the wetland meadow to its natural state, managing invasive species that threaten the biodiversity of the wooded areas, and implementing sustainable practices for the crop fields.

Each project, from reforesting areas with native trees to preventing soil erosion along the creek bed, is a step toward long-term sustainability, ensuring Fairlight Farm thrives for future generations.

A Place for Gathering

Fairlight Farm is more than just a place—it’s a setting where people can come together, whether for our in-person salons, small group retreats, or reflective walks along the farm’s trails. The two-story blue pole barn serves as a gathering hub, complete with office space and recreational areas, while the historic Federal-style house provides a welcoming space for salons and discussions.